RELATIONSHIP & INTIMACY COACHING
with Dra. Yael R. Rosenstock Gonzalez (aka YaeltheSexGeek!)
Your low libido might not be a libido problem at all.
Sometimes desire fades because your body has learned that intimacy comes with pressure.
I offer sex and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples who want to reconnect with desire, consent, and authentic pleasure.
If you've ever thought:
“I want to want sex… but I just don’t.”
“Why does affection sometimes feel like a trap?”
“Am I broken, or is something else going on?”
pssht....
You're not alone — and nothing is wrong with you.
Hi, I'm Yael! I help individuals and couples rebuild desire, safety, and authentic consent by learning how to listen to the body, interrupt people-pleasing patterns, and create intimacy that actually feels good again.
My work blends somatic tools, narrative work, and trauma-aware practices so intimacy can feel curious, spacious, and pleasurable instead of pressured.
I'd love to support your journey back to safety and pleasure.
P.S. Want to know more about me? Here is my "Get to Know Me" page and my professional timeline.
Working Together Options
Not sure which option fits your needs best? Let's hop on a call and walk through it together.
THIS MIGHT BE FOR YOU IF
• you struggle to know what you actually want in intimacy
• you often prioritize others’ needs over your own
• desire feels confusing or inconsistent
• you want compassionate guidance as you reconnect with your body
1:1 Coaching for Individuals
A private space to explore your relationship with desire, boundaries, and embodied consent.
Together we work on:
identifying yes, no, and maybe in the body
understanding nervous system responses like fawning or shutdown
rebuilding self-trust around intimacy
reconnecting with curiosity and pleasure
Package Structure
3-month (6-session) Coaching Container with guided exercises and reflection prompts. Together we will identify the right rhythm of sessions for you.
Not sure if this is for you?
To support you in making a grounded decision, I am offering free 15-minute connection and question calls for the first time. Book your free call through March 21st, 2026 (11:59ET)
Couple's Intimacy Coaching
A guided process for couples who care deeply about each other but feel stuck around intimacy, desire, or communication.
Many couples I work with genuinely love each other but sex has become
• routine
• pressured
• avoided
• confusing
• a burden
Coaching creates space to rebuild intimacy in a way that honors both partners' autonomy, desires, and needs.
What we focus on
understanding pressure vs genuine desire
learning consent-based intimacy skills
supporting partners in disrupting people-pleasing patterns
reigniting curiosity and pleasure
Package Structure
3-month* coaching container including:
• 6 couples sessions
• 2 individual sessions (you can add more later as desired)
• guided exercises and reflection prompts
*Flexibility is available for time frame in which to complete the session
Not sure if this is for you?
To support you in making a grounded decision, I am offering free 15-minute connection and question calls for the first time. Book your free call through March 21st, 2026 (11:59ET)
This might be for you if
• one or both of you are enduring physical intimacy rather than enjoying it
• initiating touch feels stressful (fear of rejection and/or of sexual pressure)
• you want to feel excited about physical intimacy
• one or both of you is experiencing low desire, mismatched libido, or communication challenges around sex and intimacy
This might be for you if
• you learn best in group settings
• you want personal support without being the only center of attention
• you are ready to (re)ignite your connection to pleasure and safety
• individual coaching is not feasible for you at this time
Group Coaching
This small-group coaching space is designed for people who want support exploring consent, desire, and intimacy in relationships while learning in community.
Why?
It is powerful and healing to hear that we are not alone in what we are experiencing. Also, group coaching allows us to learn from each other while practicing tools in a supportive space.
Planned structure
• 6 sessions over 3 months
• 90-minute group calls
• The container will be limited to 6–12 participants
Join if you'd like
an intimate community space for conversations that matter to you
to feel less alone in your experiences
coaching support at a lower price point
To honor varied financial situations, pricing options will range from $50–$200/month with pay-it-forward options to support accessibility.
Invitations will be sent in late March/early April to those on the waitlist
Low Libido Isn't Always a Libido Problem
Many people search for help with low libido in relationships, assuming something is wrong with their body or hormones.
But often desire fades because intimacy has become associated with routine, pressure, obligation, or people-pleasing patterns.
My work focuses on helping people rebuild consent, safety, novelty, and authentic desire so intimacy can feel spacious, delicious, and oh so desired.
Please Note:
Because my clients find me through word-of-mouth and/or familiarity with my public work, I do not generally offer free connection and question calls. However, I am excited to have time right now to connect with new folks like you! I recommend taking advantage and signing up for my free calls while they are available and/or joining the group coaching waiting list.
My Approach: Values, Ethics, and Disclaimer
My coaching is grounded in the following principles:
• trauma-aware facilitation
• embodied consent practices
• respect for autonomy and boundaries
• justice-informed relationship education
You can read my full Code of Ethics statement HERE
Disclaimer:
Coaching is a professional service that is distinct from therapy.
As a coach, I offer
- a judgment-free space to ask your questions
- opportunities to talk through your concerns, thoughts, and experiences
- a space for exploring identity, community, and belonging
- co-development of personal goals
- connection to resources
- communication techniques
- activities to support you in the goals you/we have developed during our time together
As a coach, I am not able to diagnose or treat mental health conditions. Coaching does not replace or substitute counseling or other professional psychological services. It also does not replace or substitute professional legal, medical, financial, etc. advice by the respective qualified professionals.
By working with a coach, the client assumes exclusive responsibility for their own emotional, mental, and physical well-being as well as the decisions and actions they take within and outside of the coaching sessions.
All activities, instructions, and resources offered by the coach are strictly educational and intended to be supportive, instructive, and informative. These services do not constitute counseling services. The coach is not a licensed mental health professional, psychologist, or physician and does not represent their services as falling under any of these categories.
The client must understand that there are no guaranteed outcomes when choosing to hire the services of a coach.
“Thank you for opening our mind to new possibilities in our intimacy”
Thank you for creating a space for us to feel comfortable
discussing and exploring topics that are actually pretty
taboo in our circles. Also, thank you for opening our mind
to new possibilities in our intimacy...had some bomb ass
arousal sessions that night and yes sessions in plural!
Group Session Attendee
"I had been struggling with feeling comfortable with
my body and my sexuality"
I had been struggling with feeling comfortable with
my body and my sexuality and Yael had a huge
impact on making me feel more confident. And
most importantly, I think, understood and heard.
1:1 Coaching Client
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